The Bother with Bathing

My size has excluded me from many things in my life: I will never be a jet pilot; I will never find pants that fit me correctly; I will never be able to fit comfortably in the back of a compact car. And while I love being somewhat tall, I do recognize that I could have a much more comfortable life if I were but a few inches shorter. Every once and again, I get a reminder that I was made too tall for this world, and most of these times occur while in the bathroom. 

For the past two years, I have lived in apartments with showerheads that reach barely above my navel.  To combat this, so that I can be clean from the hip up, I have had to take up limbo as a means to get myself properly clean.  So each morning, I get up, hit my head on the shower frame, turn on the faucet, and then proceed to dip my head down low enough to get my hair wet. This ritual becomes even more daunting when taking into account that my family is notorious for waking up with incredibly low blood pressure. So sometimes when I lean over to shower, I find myself unable to stand up again, and so I wait, doubled over in my shower, until I can stand up without fainting.

Today, I got home from the public library and decided, “Today, I will take a bath!”  which is incredibly weird for me to decide because I have not taken a bath in years and I was raised to think that baths were unacceptable for any purpose of personal hygiene. But determined, I grabbed my book, turned on the tap, and started to fill the tub. Impatient as always, I hopped inside of the tub before the water level had risen above three inches, but due to the laws of mass, when I sat in the tub, the water level rose nearly to the lip.

I tried to manage myself into some comfortable position, but found myself in a predicament in each and every one of them. When I sat with my legs straight out in front of me, I found my butt being pushed up the slope of the far end of the tub, making it so that I just hovered above the surface of the water. I then decided to bend my knees in, but to keep my feet against the floor meant that my knees nestled themselves into my nostrils. If I put my feet against the wall, my knees then found themselves in my eye sockets. I slouched further and further into the tub until my butt hit one wall, my head the other, and my legs shot directly up into the sky, where I could toe my showerhead like a lover’s foot. From here I grabbed my book, and tried to fit my elbows to my side so that I would be able to read. And there, feeling somewhat like a Jack-in-the-box, I read for half an hour, just so that I could accomplish my earlier goal of taking a bath.

I was never taught much about the Presidents, in school, and I might be able to only name ten of our country’s former leaders. But as soon as I started to unwedge myself from the tub, my mind settled upon President William Howard Taft. I know nothing about what Taft did as a president, nor do I know anything relevant about his life, but as I sat in my tub, I remembered how Taft did not fit the tub in the White House and had to have four men squeeze him from his porcelain shackle. I shuddered at the thought of becoming imprisoned in my tub, and having to pound on my bathroom wall until my fat and pleasant neighbor, Vern, realized that I was in trouble and needed assistance. So to make sure that I would not become stuck in the tub, I lubed up my body with as much soap as I could muster while the water level lowered.

After lubing up, the issue of getting out of the tub was no longer an issue, but actually being able to stand up became nearly impossible. After trying to stand a few times and then slipping, crashing my butt onto the floor of my tub repeatedly, I then realized what I a commotion my downstairs neighbors must be hearing. Of course, my concern lasted for only a second because my downstairs neighbors don’t speak English, and therefore, could never be able to complain to me in a manner that I would understand. I managed to get myself up, showered off, and then I realized something. When I am able to own a bath that fits me, and I can read in it to my hearts delight, then I will know I have been a success. And I can die happy.

Helen, The Destroyer of Hair

I have been walking around with the longest of hair for two weeks now. I used to love having long hair when I was younger, and my hair was a walking homage to Farah Fawcett. I would have to continuously flip my hair to keep my vision clear, and even after my hair was gone, I kept the habit. More recently, I have decided that I would much rather not have as much hair, so keeping it short has been fine with me. In Utah, I had a fabulous hairdresser whom I never had to decide what I wanted; she would just go to work and send me on my way with some awesome hair and a smack on the bottom. 

Since moving from Utah, I have yet to get a good haircut. The first being done by a place in Hemet called, “Tangles.” At Tangles, I was helped by a woman who spoke very little English and the other stylists were busy clipping a dog’s hair in the chair next to mine. I walked out with a decent haircut that I made look better through copious amounts of hair product.

Since then, I have moved to Rancho Santa Margarita, and while I have fifteen people in the YSA ward who are licensed cosmetologists and I planned on going to one of them, until I couldn’t wait any longer to be rid of the mop on top of my head. So I walked about town to see if I could find a posh spot that would give me a good haircut, which fortunately enough was right across the street from me.

I went in the next day to see if I could do a walk-in, and they were happy to oblige. I spotted the woman I wanted to cut my hair, but she went to the back and got two Eastern European women to come out, who then proceeded to fight over who would get to cut my hair. The fatter of the two women won, and dragged me to the sink. At this point, I started to think, “Well at least she doesn’t have a dog in the chair next to me,” and decided to just go through with the cut.

When she sat me in the chair, she asked what I did and I told her that I was a water chemist. She didn’t really know what a water chemist was, but knew that I worked with water somehow and thought that I was somewhat like the Sparkletts’ water man. After clarifying that I don’t deliver water, but test water, the fog began to lift from her eyes. Right before she made the first cut, she asked, “So is safe to drink water from home? I don’t think it safe, so I buy water. It from Jay-Pan. A machine make.” I knew at this moment that this woman should not be cutting my hair, and before I could weasel my way out of the chair, she had made the first cut.

Her scissors were dull, which was the second problem I had with this woman cutting my hair because every cut would pluck out fifteen hairs along with it. My first problem was that this woman was dumber than the sack of potatoes that I had purchased earlier in the day, and in hindsight, I would have been better off getting my hair cut by the sack of potatoes. But she had started her work, and I just let her go along with it; I’ve had mediocre haircuts before, and I am confident in my ability to style over incompetence.

Her scissors started to take a magical toll on my hair, and my hair began to frizz more than it had ever done before in my life. By the end of the haircut, I had an afro to be jealous of, and she then received a phone call and left me in my seat for ten minutes. I contemplated how I was going to be able to cope with having an afro and how I desperately needed to go home and shower before I could be seen in public with this monstrosity of a doo. After her phone call, Helen went back to work and cut my hair again, this time shorter and more frizzed.

She finished my hair and started up again two more times before I said, “Thank you, it’s perfect.” I was ready to get out of the chair, even if I had to lie, cheat, or steal. She finished up by taking a glob of gel and casually sliding it halfway through my hair which made me then look like Cameron Diaz in, “There’s Something About Mary.” I looked in the mirror and realized, there is no fixing this haircut. No way in hell.  

 I got up to pay the woman with my card and the woman stared at me blankly. “Oh. I no take card. I take cash.” I looked at her dumbfounded and showed her the inside of my wallet, which contained a receipt from the grocery store and a coupon for a pint of ice cream at Baskin Robins. “You have check in car?” I tried to keep my thoughts inside my mind, but instead, they splayed across my face, and they read, “Are you seriously this dumb?”

“You go get cash from bank next door?” I shook my head no. “Well go get money and come back, I hold your iPod for you until you come back.” She fingered the cord to my headphones and pulled my iPod out of my pocket, and along with it, took my ID badge from work. I rushed out to my truck, upset that I had to go to the ATM in the middle of Target with the most hideous haircut of my life for all the world to see, and then had to go back to see Helen, the destroyer of hair.

I went back with money and gave her a twenty for her work. She looked up at me and said, “No tip?” I looked down at her and considered shaving the side of her head for my tip, but instead just smiled, turned around, and headed for the door. The woman asked again, “No tip?” which then put me at wits end. At the door, I looked at her, smiled, and said “Don’t sleep with gum in your mouth, enjoy that tip.” I came home and hacked away at my hair with the kitchen scissors until my hair looked a smidge bit better, but I have to keep in mind that, “. . . the difference between a good haircut and a bad one is two weeks.” I might have set a calendar date on my iPod for two weeks from now.

Life Alone

Life alone is very different for me. Being that I am a social creature, coming home to nobody, and not knowing any of my neighbors, has started to take its toll on me. Mostly, I have become increasingly stir crazy as the days go on. 

Most of my days involve watching DVDs to the point that I have watched practically every movie that I own. Worst of all is that I have watched every movie that I practically own in Spanish. This being because my brother lent me his DVD player which has automatic setting for each disc to play in Spanish. I, once being able to speak Spanish to some level, can understand most of the movies, but sometimes I get very lost in the dialogue and then lose all sight of the plot in total. This has given every DVD a whole new storyline where I have no clue what will happen next, which then frustrates me even more, so I turn off the movie half way through. On a side note, I have discovered how to change the settings on my DVD player so that I can watch in English, but sometimes I am too lazy to change it and just watch in a foreign language anyway.

All of my friends claim that living by your lonesome is the best because you can just hang around the house naked. I, never being naked outside of the confines of my bedroom before, decided to take it for a spin. After securing each window and shutting the blinds tight, I took off my clothes and tried to go about normal life. Normal life never really happened, and I ended up standing naked in my kitchen for fifteen minutes, waiting for the awesomeness to set in. After standing awkwardly nude in the kitchen, with my hands by my side, standing as tall as I could, I decided that nakedness isn’t all that fun. Then it hit me. “I should eat something naked. Yeah!” I reached into my cupboard and pulled out one of the numerous Fiber One products that I must have on hand at all times and started to peel away the wrapper. Unfortunately, eating naked made me feel increasingly more pathetic and after one bite, I slid the Fiber One bar back into its package for some other time.

I’ve only somewhat met my neighbors, which means I have seen them around once or twice and never really said much to them. My immediate neighbor’s name is Vern, and he likes to smoke at six in the morning. I wouldn’t mind so much if I didn’t have all the windows in my house open and then having to wake up in a cloud of smoke, but he seems rather pleasant and fat. Next to him is another neighbor who likes to smoke early in the morning, but he likes to throw his cigarette butts off of the ledge and into the courtyard. I would mind more if I used the courtyard, but it smells of dog poop because dog owners have become increasingly apathetic to where their dogs do their business.

My downstairs neighbor is a hoarder, which I discovered when I accidently dropped my phone off of my balcony and onto his patio. I considered just walking behind the building and grabbing my phone quickly, but didn’t want to cause a ruckus with a new neighbor. So I went down, knocked on his door (which he locks heavily at all times), and explained my plight to him. He has no name, but is Asian and has a beard like Brigham Young himself. After I asked him to get my phone, he closed his door, locked all of the locks on it, and then went and got the phone for me. This was the only time that he opened the door wide enough for me to see anything inside, and it was dark and packed with boxes that probably contained dead bodies or something.

Besides my neighbors, the only other inhabitants of Rancho Santa Margarita that I interact with are the numerous spiders that live here. I, moving in with heavy arachnophobia, have become almost completely unphased when I look out my window and see a five-inch long spider spin a five foot across web. Each day, I see more spiders than I saw in the movie “Arachnophobia” or “Eight-Legged Freaks” and each day I care less that they are here, that is if they keep their distance. One spider lives in the eucalyptus tree of my backyard and moves closer to my apartment with each day. The spider crossed the line when he decided to spin its web over the patio chair on my balcony, which I promptly stood up into. After screaming bloody murder and having all of the neighbors from the next courtyard look out their windows, I decided to sweep up all of the webs he had spun and then smashed the spider several times until I knew that he would be dead for a good long time. Although, I hear that if you kill one spider, five more will come in its place.

Because I have just barely moved into my apartment, I still lack a few essentials. So I decided to walk across the street to the Target and get what I had forgotten: cotton swabs, non-stick spray, more bottled water, and anything else that could be useful for my apartment. But due to my short-term attention span, the moment I walked into Target, I forgot everything that I needed. I walked around the aisles trying to recall what I needed, and ended up in the Paula Dean Cookery section. There I became increasingly upset at my previous roommates for destroying all of the pots and pans that I owned, so then I was mad at Paula Dean for having so many great pots and pans. I left her aisle with a vendetta against my favorite southern woman, besides my southern friend, Bonnie Ross.

I came across some bottled water and threw it into my cart and ended up going towards the checkout, where I found a rogue box of cotton swabs. After paying for my merchandise, I walked outside and remembered that I had forgotten the non-stick spray. “Damn it Francis! I forgot PAM!” This, while therapeutic for me, probably caused confusion for all the other patrons of Target. Where was this Francis that this man was yelling at? Is she with Pam? Of course, right when I cursed to Francis, a flood of mothers with their children decided to walk by.

Determined not to walk back into the store to get non-stick spray, I just started walking off towards my apartment with my pack of water on my shoulder. Crossing the widest street in RSM with a heavy package of waters on your shoulder is not recommended, especially if you are self conscious of people gawking at you whilst you shuffle across the street awkwardly, trying to make it before the light turns green, but traipsing across the widest street in RSM is especially frowned upon (but I did anyway).

After making my way back to my apartment, I decided to collapse on my futon and put in my favorite movie. But because I was too lazy to find the remote, I had to watch “Señor Zorro Fantástico” instead.